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    TMI Time: Virginity

    Er? I guess I just generally assume someone isn't having sex because they don't want to, rather than because they're "just scared"! I guess, yeah, I'll admit your post seems concern-trolly to more than just ace people! Whoo? Also you can be saying gross silly things without necessarily being...
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    ?? Why are you saying these things. Why do people who don't want to have sex need to be reminded that it's ~perfectly normal~ to be scared of attachment ... Unfortunately a lot of the shit ace people and other people who might not want to have sex have to put up with is just this kind of...
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    The point is that saying something like that is gross and weird! Just because it makes sense for some people to believe stereotypes doesn't mean it's a good thing to do yourself or reinforce...
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    no, no, DURING KISSING the most hilarious :DDD
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    Really? I know lots of people (myself included) who never kissed with tongue until lots of kisses after their first! If I gave that baseball analogy any credibility at all, 'second base' should totally be kissing with tongue.
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    ! Oh, it would make sense if you got that impression from the rest of my post! Sure, I do maybe think that. I think it's silly if your parents told you that's just the way it has to be, or because everyone says they're doing that, etc., there are bad reasons too. I'd say the idea's silly rather...
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    You're right! Not what I was saying.
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    You asked "why do people want to wait", nobody's talking about force! Having to not have sex before marriage because of religion is kind of not fun, but sex means different things to different people and it's not really fair to just blanket-shame them all. I think that's the issue Hiikaru has...
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    I think cultural opinion of it is sort of changing! Maybe this is just me, but I just sort of... never cared about virginity or even really thought of it?? It's just, one day I wasn't a virgin any more I guess! Also I value the particularly meaningful times a lot more than the ~~first~~ time...
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